Are you thinking about getting into the whole sex toy thing with your partner? There’s a lot more to think about than you might imagine. What you have to figure out first is where to begin, and that starts with a few more questions.
Every couple needs to have a purpose as to why they’re even thinking about getting sex toys in the first place. If they don’t talk to each other about the matter, it will feel awkward when the sex toys finally do come in the mail.
One or both of you might be feeling a little shy — don’t feel shy at all. It’s better to make sure that you’re going to be able to look into everything and anything that’s going to give you more pleasure in bed. It’s not just about one person that gets pleasure, but both people getting pleasure. That’s just the way that it has to be.
If you’re wanting to start with something light, a good vibrator tends to not be unwelcome. This is something that both partners can actually use, even though most believe it’s only for women. It’s going to be up to you both to include each other. Don’t just use the vibrator on one person — mix it up, have fun with it.
Don’t feel like it’s impossible to have fun with your sex life — there are just too much sex toys out there.
Some people want to get a little kinky in bed — why not go with blindfolds, silk ties, or even a paddle? You don’t have to get particularly rough, but the options are there. What you and your partner want to do is completely up to you!
If you’re worried about the packaging revealing that there’s something risqué inside, don’t. Many online sex shops are now using discreet packaging. No one will know that you ordered a sex toy online, and there’s just so many to choose form that you can actually order more than one. No matter what your tastes are, we’re pretty confident that you can your partner will definitely find plenty to enjoy with anything that you purchase!
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