Great Sex Toys For Couples New to The Game

Are you thinking about getting into the whole sex toy thing with your partner? There’s a lot more to think about than you might imagine. What you have to figure out first is where to begin, and that starts with a few more questions.

Every couple needs to have a purpose as to why they’re even thinking about getting sex toys in the first place. If they don’t talk to each other about the matter, it will feel awkward when the sex toys finally do come in the mail.

One or both of you might be feeling a little shy — don’t feel shy at all. It’s better to make sure that you’re going to be able to look into everything and anything that’s going to give you more pleasure in bed. It’s not just about one person that gets pleasure, but both people getting pleasure. That’s just the way that it has to be.


Are you thinking about trying to do more with your sex life? It’s time to think about trying to bring in the sex toys.

If you’re wanting to start with something light, a good vibrator tends to not be unwelcome. This is something that both partners can actually use, even though most believe it’s only for women. It’s going to be up to you both to include each other. Don’t just use the vibrator on one person — mix it up, have fun with it.

Don’t feel like it’s impossible to have fun with your sex life — there are just too much sex toys out there.

Some people want to get a little kinky in bed — why not go with blindfolds, silk ties, or even a paddle? You don’t have to get particularly rough, but the options are there. What you and your partner want to do is completely up to you!

If you’re worried about the packaging revealing that there’s something risqué inside, don’t. Many online sex shops are now using discreet packaging. No one will know that you ordered a sex toy online, and there’s just so many to choose form that you can actually order more than one. No matter what your tastes are, we’re pretty confident that you can your partner will definitely find plenty to enjoy with anything that you purchase!

A great tips is to visit Dirty Chat from 121 Girls for tips and advice.

Make Those Awesome Moments a Little More Awesome With the Right Vibrator

Vibrators are a subject that no one really wants to discuss, but everyone seems to have their preferences in terms of actually owning and operating one! Indeed, vibrators are as diverse as the people that own them. That’s right, it’s true — this is a sex toy that’s truly available for both sexes. The thrill of using a vibrator in bed is great when you’re single and even better when you have the right person willing to explore with you.

Not sure which vibrator you want, or even where to get one? Don’t worry, this guide is definitely for you!

First and foremost, you should know that there’s a vibrator out there for everyone. The right vibe for you depends on your budget, as well as your tastes. Do you want a vibrator that really works double duty as an insertable? If so, you’re going to need to up your budget just a little bit. On the other hand, if you want something discreet that’s going to be easy to slip into a purse, then you really want to go with a “bullet” style vibe that can be tucked neatly away. After all, why should you limit your fun to home only?


What about getting something that both of you can use? Getting a “ring” style vibrator (for man-woman pairings) or a “double ended” vibrator (for woman-woman pairings) can really crank up the heat in a fun, safe manner.

Need more sizzle? Go for a g spot vibrator that can really take your pleasure to infinity and beyond! However, there’s nothing childish here — just pleasure that definitely leaves behind warm, happy memories of the night before.

Adam&Eve has just about every vibrator that you can think of — so make sure that you look into their selection right away. Not only do you get free shopping at a reasonable amount, but you get so much selection and free gifts. Adam&Eve really strive to give you the best of all worlds — selection, price, and bonuses.

Want to spice things up? The right vibe could do more than you think! But you have to look through the selection yourself — it’s not like the right vibe is just going to jump of the page and into your life. If you’re buying it as a couple, then both of you should be looking through the selection. Let the anticipation really get under your skin and warm you up from the inside — having fun is always in season, you know!

The Material Choices For Your Sex Toys Are Endless

Are you thinking about trying to get into the world of sex toys? You’re definitely not alone at all. In fact, a lot of people find that they really do want to get a little more into sex toys for a wide variety of reasons. They feel as if going into sex toys will allow them to spice things up in the bedroom. This is actually a pretty normal thing. If you’re in a long term relationship that’s monogamous, then you will want to see what you can do to enjoy more time with the person you’re with rather than thinking that you have to just give up on good sexual fun with them. Sex toys do add something new, and they can indeed force you to think about sex in a very different way.

In order to figure out what you want to purchase first, you really might be better off thinking about the types of materials that are available for sex toys.

We’ll go over a few of them.

If there’s one material type that reigns supreme over all of the others, it would have to be glass. A lot of glass toys are going to be a bit more expensive, but you have to think about it from the right perspective, you’re probably going to have the sex toy for quite some time. This means that even if you are going to spend the money on a premium sex toy, you will definitely have it for a very long time. So there’s no need to fear that you won’t have the power to get the most out of your sex toy.

Another material that’s pretty cool would have to be silicone. Even though a lot of people think it’s too hard the truth is that silicone can really be high quality. It’s just all about the construction. It’s all non-porous, which means that you will be able to clean it properly as well.

The way you clean things and the way you tend to your sex toys will ultimately determine how long you actually have them.

If you really want to pick up a sex toy, we definitely recommend buying one online. There are so many different materials out there, and so many different fun shapes and sizes. If you just try to go with something that’s off the shelf of a local toy shop, you might not get what you’re looking for.

Ordering online is very fast, and very discreet. No one has to know about all of the fun that you’re going to have — just you!

52 Pickup will never be the same

We were recently given the opportunity to review toys for Good Vibrations, which we very excitedly accepted. At the time, there weren’t any toys that really caught my eye so I decided to get the Position of the Day playing cards for something to do. They’ve come in handy quite a few times now, when we can’t find anything else to do. So many times, in fact, that I now carry them with me everywhere.


These cards are just like a traditional poker size set of fifty-two cards, except the images are fifty-two different, and sometimes gravity defying, illustrated sex positions in the same style as Nerve.com’s Position of the Day Book. Upon opening the box, my girlfriend and I sorted through to see how many positions we had already done ourselves, which ones piqued our interests, and which ones were just downright impossible. The names of the positions are all real silly, like “Chairway to Heaven,” “Missionary Impossible,” and “Bang Gliding”.

We like to play Rummy with them, but that’s because the only other games I know how to play are War and Go Fish. I can see these cards being very popular at bachelor/bachelorette parties, but they’re also great for having a few friends over to play (Strip?-)Poker or even playing Solitaire by yourself.

The Blossom Sleeve: A Blooming Success

Ever since I dove into the vast pool that is the porn universe on the internet, I have seen repeated ads for products like the Flesh Light. I never really thought about ever trying one of those so called “Pocket Pussies”.

Until now. I stumbled across the Blossom Sleeve on Babeland. It didn’t look like an ordinary fake pussy, or even one at the end of a flashlight looking apparatus. This was no ordinary “pocket pussy”. This one looks like a lot of fun. The second we got it in the mail, I had to give this thing a go.

So its a really cool shade of blue, made out of “Senso Material”, which is essentially a body safe jelly/rubber/latex substance. The inside is a Ribbed tunnel that I knew had to be the secret to this lovely, flower-ended ” masturbator, as it says on the box.

The experience can be summed up quite simply as, my new favorite thing next to my girlfriends pussy. The outer edge has 8 massaging petals that tease your balls as you are jerking with it. With a little bit of lube I was on my way to a sweet orgasm and my mind blown. The inside ribs really make this product hit every spot that needed to be hit.

Even the clean up was easy! Just as easily as I slid myself into it, I was able to run water right through it, a little soap and the thing was squeaky clean and ready for another go. I love the Blossom Sleeve. I know that I will be telling every guy I know about it.

Easily, I have to give this toy 4 and 1/2 stars. Easy to clean, easy to use, made me cum, but after the first use it was a little torn up, that might have been my fault. It wasn’t perfect, but it was the next best thing.

The Kama Sutra

Like most people I’ve talked to, I assumed The Kama Sutra was just some old Indian book with a bunch of pictures of people having sex in crazy positions. When I actually received my copy from EdenFantasys and looked inside, I was pleasantly proven very, very wrong. The book itself is covered in Japanese Silk with the title embossed in gold; it’s broken up into eight sections, and the positions are at the very end. This intrigued me; I had to look at what else was inside.

There are really only about 20 positions, most of which Hubby and I have done or still do a majority of the time, so from that perspective I was a bit disappointed, but the rest of the book dives deep into the essence of relationships, which was a surprise that totally made up for the lack of new positions for Hubby and I to try.

The rest of the Kama Sutra explains how to attract people, the principles of love, how to acquire a wife or husband, how to act like a wife, etc. There are several chapters in each section to explain how Vatsyayana intended, especially how the Kama (pleasure or sensual gratification) and Artha (wordly wealth) and Dharma (virtue or religious merit) tie into each.

It’s a very interesting read; I would recommend it to anyone open to a different religious view and wanting more of a spiritual bond with their partner, or anyone looking to better themselves as a partner.

Orgasm in a Box

I received a box a couple of days ago and was dancing and screeching with excitement while I opened it. Inside, was my Orgasm in a Box (which much to my surprise, was in a bag) and the Julian’s Stud Ring from Babeland.

I took the ribbon off the OiaB and tied it around my head. I took the contents out and put them all together. Inside were four adorable little Babelube packets, a Silver Bullet, and a Bunny Tickler, along with two AA batteries.

I put the batteries into the remote part of the Silver Bullet and turned it as high as it would go and touched it to my nose. I know it sounds weird, but I’ve always heard it feels similar to how it would on your clit. I put the Bunny Tickler over it and did the same thing, and watched the bunny ears wiggling around. I was totally intrigued. I ran in and showed my mom.

I waited until today to use it, and I do have to say it’s the best vibrator I’ve had thus far. I’ve had a lot of problems trying to find vibrators with strong enough vibrations, but this one is perfect. Add the Bunny Tickler, and you won’t want to leave your bed for a month. I’m not even kidding.

I was all excited when Hubby came over to test out the toys together, but he wasn’t feeling up to it. I waited until he dropped me back off and, although I would’ve really liked to test it out together, it was well worth the wait and I had plenty of fun just by myself. Maybe we’ll get a chance to try it out along with the Julian’s Stud Ring so he can write the review for that!

As for my toys, they’re super easy to clean. The Bunny Tickler can just be run under hot water and washed with soap; the Silver Bullet should be washed with a soapy washcloth – not under water – because of the electrical cord to the remote.

Glorious is the first word that comes in mind

I’ve only seen a couple episodes of Sex in the City, but one of the first ones I ever saw featured the Elastomer Rabbit Habit, and I was instantly intrigued. I was only 15 or 16 at the time, so there was no chance of getting one. Now, almost 10 years later, I’ve finally gotten my hands on one, thanks to Babeland, and it’s everything I ever dreamed and more. :)

It’s girthy, which is really important to me. It’s got the beads that turn in the middle, which is absolutely fabulous. The rabbit is in the perfect spot for clitoral stimulation, which is wonderful. It’s got two different switches – One for the vibrator, and one for the rabbit.

It’s absolutely perfect. It feels amazing. It’s really hard for me to get off, but this one did it for me. That’s definitely saying something.

I couldn’t have asked for a better vibrator. I wish I was more into masturbating so I could use it more, but I’m really not. Thank God Hubby likes to play with toys!

Impulse Flexi Rabbit: Intriguing, but rather Dissapointing

I recently received the Impulse Flexi Rabbit, very excited because it was the first rabbit I’ve ever owned and I’ve wanted one for years. I immediately opened it and put the batteries in to turn it on and check out the settings. It’s got seven different vibration settings, ranging from really soft to really different to pretty strong.

The first thing I noticed after playing with the settings is that it’s super girthy, which is awesome for someone like me who likes to feel… full? Also, the shaft of it flexes so you can hit all your most sensitive spots.

Upon reviewing it, I had a couple problems with it… The vibrations weren’t really strong enough for me, and the rabbit attachment is in an odd place or angled weird, because it didn’t hit my clit at all. I was really disappointed at that, seeing as that’s what I was most excited for. It would probably be better for someone with a lower clit, so the rabbit will actually do something for them. The vibration patterns that it has are pretty nice, though. Most of them aren’t strong enough, but the ones that come close are wonderful. :)

Cleaning it is a breeze, seeing as it’s waterproofed. Just rinse it good with soap and water and store it in a dry place.

The Orchid G gets an F from Me

When I started reviewing sex toys, one of the first ones to catch my eye was the Orchid G from Babeland. I had only had straight vibrators before, so the angled head was super captivating. I put off trying it out for a while, though, because it’s so thin. As it turns out, my worries were not in vain.

Sure, it’s waterproof and that’s awesome… It’s purple and sparkly, which is nice. Besides that, though, I really can’t think of anything to say about it. It’s way too thin; I felt like I needed another vibrator besides this one for actual penetration. It’s got one speed, when it says it’s supposed to vary, and this one speed is not at all satisfying. It was hard to keep it on my G-spot, as it kept turning over, and unless it’s directly on the G-spot, there’s nothing to gain from it. I am really, really disappointed with this toy.

I feel bad, cause I can usually find something positive to say about anything, but with this I just really can’t. I’m struggling to find words to say at all, even bad. I’m just completely speechless over this thing… Overall a big fat F from me. Unless the G stands for “God Awful”, in which case I’d have to give it an A+.